Mon. Mar 2nd, 2026
Where We Truly Belong Together

Some mornings, the phrase “Where We Truly Belong Together” just sits with me like a soft shirt I forgot I owned. Feels right, somehow. Makes me think of the kitchen at Tasha’s place on a Sunday, bodies moving slow, coffee brewing, laughter floating up in the steam.

There was this one morning, not a special one, just regular. I was hunched at the table, sleep still tugging at my bones, trying to decide if I had the energy to be a person that day. Tasha slid a mug across the table, not saying a word, just giving me that look. The one that says, “I see you,” without needing to get all up in my business. She put oat milk in it because she remembers I can’t do dairy, and she never makes a thing about it. Just slides the mug, warm and right, like it’s always been meant for me.

It’s such a small gesture, a cup of coffee, but in that moment it felt like a whole world opening up at the edge of my fingertips. That’s how I know I belong here: not because anybody made a speech, but because someone remembered what I need and offered it without fanfare. It’s the quiet kind of care, the kind that doesn’t need to be loud to be seen.

I catch myself grinning at the table, still half-asleep, feeling the soft thrum of community in the way she pushes the sugar bowl closer. There’s a comfort in being known like that, in the little details. It’s not about grand declarations or rainbow flags in the window, though I love those too. It’s oat milk in my coffee, Tasha’s hand on my shoulder, and the gentle way our laughter fills the room.

I sip slow, breathing in the warmth, thinking maybe this is what it means to belong. Just being held in the small ways, over and over, until it feels like home.

By Kabal Briar

Kabal Briar is a queer Black storyteller, educator, and creator reshaping what it means to take up space with truth and tenderness. Through poetry, essays, and lived experience, he explores identity, joy, body acceptance, and the many ways we learn to love ourselves out loud. His work blends softness with strength, humor with heart, and personal history with universal feeling. Kabal’s mission is simple: to help people feel seen, valued, and brave enough to live in their own TRUTH.

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